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Date:
10 June 2004
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Agathe Komboigo, a HIV-positive employee of SEMUS, visits
Marceline Sanfo and her son Aoudou (7), also HIV-positive.
He was in the top three of his school year of 100 pupils and
his mum was particularly proud of him. He died of an AIDS-related
illness two months after this photo was taken
Photo: Christian Aid/Louise Orton
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'When we first started people used to
call us 'those AIDS women'. Now more and more people are coming
to seek our advice and get tested.'
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Three years ago when Agathe Komboigo, from
Yako in Burkina Faso, found out that she was HIV-positive she almost
collapsed with the shock. Treated as a leper by her own family,
she found it difficult to be enthusiastic about life.
She couldn't even begin to imagine that three
years later hundreds of women would see her as an inspiration and
the picture of good health. But that's how far she has come with
the help of Christian Aid partner, Sahel Solidarity and Mutual Support
Association (SEMUS).
Agathe's husband became ill about four years
ago and was advised to take a HIV test. He couldn't bring himself
to tell her the results but she knew because his mood changed and
he started to wear a condom.
She took a test shortly afterwards and the results
came to her husband. Again he didn't want her to know the results
out of fear of rejection. But she found them one day in their bedroom.
Agathe and her husband lived with his second
wife, who was HIV-negative and his mother. And they both refused
to eat with them. 'That hurt me to the core' said Agathe 'It really
weighed heavily on my mind'.
After hearing about SEMUS on the radio Agathe
visited their offices in Yako. She went to get some medicine for
husband. She couldn't afford to pay for it so SEMUS let her have
it for free and registered her on their list of people living with
HIV/AIDS.
'They welcomed me with open arms and talked with
me' said Agathe. 'Without SEMUS I wouldn't be here now. My life
totally changed from that moment'.
Maurice Ouedraogo of SEMUS invited Agathe to
attend a conference for people living with HIV/AIDS in Bobo-Diolassou,
a town in southwest Burkina. 'I couldn't believe all these HIV-positive
people were so well', she beamed. 'I found that really encouraging.'
Agathe became more and more involved in SEMUS
and she now carries out home visits to other people living with
HIV and she leads lively discussion groups at SEMUS' headquarters.
'I really look after myself now because I want
to be in good health because this work is so important to me' she
said. And she is really good at it. She brings people out of themselves
with a touch of humour and real warmth, but never patronises.
Maurice is so impressed by her strength and commitment
that he has asked her to fill in for him while he is away, giving
pre- and post-test counseling. And she is looking forward to taking
up this role after her training.
Agathe knows she's not going to be well forever
and has started breeding pigs so that she will be able to sell them
when she becomes ill but at present she is proud of what she and
other HIV-positive women have achieved at SEMUS.
'When we first started people used to call us
'those AIDS women'. Now more and more people are coming to seek
our advice and get tested. And my family respects me now and we
all eat together.'
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